Blowjobs. Head. Hummers. BJs. Going Down. Fellatio. Whatever you call it, guys will do anything to get it. Oral sex is as hot and intimate as it comes.

So be empowered! You have his full trust. He?s at your mercy. And you control every moment of his pleasure. Oral sex is the ultimate sexual gift you can give to your guy. So why not give it your all?

Phase I: The Agony of Anticipation
Land soft, wet kisses on his mouth, neck and earlobes. Show him what foreplay is all about! Now bring your mouth down just far enough on his body so he?ll think maybe, hopefully, possibly you?ll keep on going. Unzip his pants and begin teasing his penis lightly with your hand as you sweep your mouth around his belly button, hips, thighs?in other words, everywhere but.

Phase II: Peeling and Revealing
It?s time for the clothes to start disappearing. Gently pull down his underwear so you reveal only the head of this penis. Now guide his penis to your mouth, and tease him with a couple of kisses before you remove every trace of clothing and move in for a closer lick. The first touches of your mouth will give him the most incredible sensations. Ever so slowly, glide the tip of your tongue up over the head, down the shaft and back up again. Now take his whole head into your mouth for one full suck, and let it pop out with one loud sexy 'slurp'.

Phase III: Head-on Head
You?re now into the faster, rhythmical phase he?s been aching for, so improvise from there. You only need to put his penis into your mouth as far as you feel comfortable. You can start shallow, and increase the depth slowly. Pay attention to what?s going on inside your mouth. Make sure it?s always nice ?n slippery, keep your teeth out of the way, run his head along the roof of your mouth for a bumpy ridge effect, lick the tip of his head while it?s inside and swirl on it with your tongue. Remember: use teeth softly (or ask if he likes nibbling?and how hard.) Bring his balls into play. Lube them up and caress them gently for the full erotic experience. Lightly tug, squeeze and roll them around in the cup of your hand. Then move on to his taint and butt.

Phase IV: The Eruption
It?s time to reap the reward for your loving caresses and erotic inspiration. The key to his climax will come from your steady application of the one Golden Technique that works for your guy. Once you discover it, store it away in your memory and you?ll enjoy many happy endings together. When do you begin the Golden Technique? When you sense he?s getting close to orgasming. Just stay with the same speed, rhythm and pressure?and don?t stop! Then when he erupts: Hand Finish. If you?re not ready to taste him, substitute your hand for your mouth without missing a beat. Lip Finish. With your lips over his head, press your tongue against his peehole. As you stroke him with your hand, let his spurts ricochet left and right off your tongue. Mouth Finish. If you?re ready for him to come inside your mouth, but you don?t want to swallow, try this: aim him toward the inside of your cheek and use the back of your tongue to close off your throat.

Content By Dr. Sadie Allison